It is true that first impressions last. That is why during a first date, you can never have another chance with the girl of your dreams if you started lame or unlikable.
Therefore, it is very essential that you put your best foot forward during your first meeting or date with the woman you like. Little did most men know is that there are actually 5 mistakes that they do during first dates. And more often than not, doing these mistakes obliviously results to a heart-cracking pain and no chance of knowing more about the opposite sex. But do you know what is the worst thing about these five mistakes? Men actually thought that they are making a good impression and they are on the right track!
So without further ado, here are the most common mistakes most men make during first dates.
Top 1: Giving gifts on the first date
While it looks romantic or at least courteous, it is actually a big mistake to give a woman chocolates or flowers on your first date. This is true especially if you brought her favorite flora. She agreed to meet you in the first place because she is interested to know you better not because of what you can offer materially. Besides, women today are not that too romantically inclined especially on the first meeting. If you brought her favorite flower or chocolate, she might find it weird that you already know about her when in fact you just met.
Top 2: Trying to be serious
During a first date, most men are trying be the most serious man a girl could talk to, discussing about career, life, and things that he thought could impress his potential date. On the contrary, he actually bores the girl. Rather than using a more friendly-tone and having lively conversations, many men just take things seriously. Men are playful. But when it comes to women, they just suddenly change into something as tedious as a rock. More often than not, they do this because they were trying to be on the safe side. They thought that if they do this, they are increasing their chances of being with the woman that they want to know more about.
Top 3: Interviewing instead of making conversation
In relation to the second mistake, men eventually turn the conversation into something like a job interview. After letting go of some questions about the girl’s basic information, it would be great if you would save questions about her work or her personal life after a few more hours or until you already get the natural flow going. If you are already lost of words, you may consider talking about hobbies, favorite movies, websites you usually visit and other light topics before shifting into more personal details. See to it that she is having fun with the talk. After all, humor is the best armor that a guy can bring on a first date.
Top 4: Overconfident and too direct
Obliviously, men become very direct as they try too hard to impress their date. As a result, most women become turned off. A man sometimes ask a woman if she likes her or any question that seems like he is asking her approval. This is a big no-no when it comes to first meeting. What men should do is to stay calm and try to be mysterious. It is not just the woman who can play hard-to-get. Men too can use this tactic in order to gain the interest of the woman especially on a first date.
Top 5: Taking the date in a very uninteresting place
A bit of boredom on the part of your date can ruin your chances of seeing her again. You should always keep in mind to keep the fun alive by meeting your date in interesting or fun places. You may opt to take her to the park especially if there will be an upcoming event or to the carnival instead. It is nice to bring her to a dinner or watch movies together. However, this may set a formal tone and it may be hard for you to have a funny, casual, and exciting conversation.
Overall, you should bear in mind that it is not just what you wear or how you look like that matters most to a woman during your first date. It must be memorable by creating a fun and non-tedious experience for you and for her.
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