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I(Bharti from Mumbai Escorts) get a lot of emails from wives who are concerned about what sex is going to be like after their husband cheated or had an affair.  Many are trying very hard to save their marriages.  They are doing everything they can to move on in a positive way.

But sex can be a whole different story in this equation because it’s just so raw.  There’s really no where to hide.  If it’s awkward or awful this can negatively affect your attempts to save your marriage and get things back to normal.  And, some women fear that they (or their husband) are going to think about the other woman during sex.

They other worry that either they or their husband won’t get aroused or turned on and that the whole encounter might be a disaster.   And if it’s a disaster, what does this say about his attraction for and desire for you and about the marriage?

This is a shame because sometimes sexual issues after cheating or an affair don’t have everything to do with sexual desire or the lack of it.  A lot of emotions, doubt, fear, and resentment can be tied to sex after cheating.

In the following article, I’ll offer some tips to help make sure the first time you have sex with your husband after cheating is a good experience rather than a bad one.

Although It’s Very Tempting:  Don’t Rush Sex After His Cheating Or Affair:  I admit that I was very tempting to rush into sex after my husband’s affair –  not because I particularly wanted to have it with him, but because I wanted confirmation that he would still find me attractive or be turned on by me.

And I think part of me wanted for him to want me so I could turn around and turn him down.  I know this was silly thinking on my part and a potential power play but that’s the way I felt.  However, after hearing from people I respect, I decided I would be better off waiting and I’m so glad I did because the experience was actually quite good rather than awkward, in genuine, or forced.

If you have any doubt or reservation, I think it is better to wait.  Honestly, if you can wait until the moment is absolutely right and you both want to be together more than anything else and can’t wait another moment, this is how you know that you have waited long enough.

I know it’s very tempting to want the reassurance of sex.  You want to connect again.  You want affirmation.  But isn’t it better to know that you can freely participate without doubt or pain?   I know that husbands have a tendency to pressure you for sex because they want to know that you are forgiven them.

But part of your healing process is putting yourself and your needs first.  You can gently and lovingly tell him that, when you do have sex, you want it to be special and you aren’t sure you’re at that point yet, but that he will be the first to know.  You can phrase it in a playful way that isn’t a rejection.

Regaining Your Sexual Confidence After Your Husband Cheated Or Had An Affair:  To me, the one thing that is going to make sex after an affair good is your own confidence.  If you go into this worried that he doesn’t find you desirable or that the experience isn’t going to be good, this is going to affect the outcome and both of your levels of enjoyment.  I know you might hope that your doubts or reluctance won’t be obvious, but it generally is.

So, I actually think it’s a very good idea to work on rebuilding your self esteem before you have sex with your husband again.  Tweak your appearance if it bothers you, get something amazing to wear so that you can feel your best.

I’ll be honest.  I read up on things to hone my sexual skills also, which is bit embarassing but I figured I needed all the help I could get. I learned how to tweak your sexual skills and, shall we say and incorporate things that men REALLY like in bed so that at least you can have the confidence that the experience is going to be good for him.

And quite frankly, isn’t that what we all want? To know that sex with us is so good that he doesn’t want or need to go and get it anywhere else?  With that said though, I don’t ever want for you to feel as though you have to put on a performance or do everything right to earn his love or desire.

Because this is as much about an emotional connection as it about a physical one. If your mind isn’t into it, your body can’t be either.  That’s why I recommend making sure you have done everything that you need to heal before you resume your sex life.

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Bharti Bedi from Mumbai Escorts says, I find, (from personal experience and from the emails that I get from readers), that of all of the things that a spouse could focus on when they find out or suspect that their partner is cheating, sex is almost always the thing that is focused on the most.  Most people want to know what the sex was like, how it differed from intimacy with them, and if their spouse enjoyed it more.

Wanting to know these things is understandable, but it’s very important to realize that the answers to these questions really don’t help you heal and will only paint a negative picture that’s going to be very hard to get out of your head.  Additionally, it’s a fact that very often, affairs have less to do with sex than you may think.  It’s often much more effective to focus on other aspects of the affair, as other things contributed more to it and fixing these things will help you (and your marriage) much more. I’ll explain what I mean by this in the following article.

Cheating Is Often About Much More Than Sex: These a perception that affairs are filled with sleazy, hot sex that the cheater couldn’t get at home.  While the sex in an affair can be different for many reasons, the sex is often not the cornerstone of why the cheating happened.  In fact, many spouses who cheat often have very fulling or at least regular intimacy at home.

Often, cheating is really about attention and feeling competent and unique. So many men tell me that what was so attractive about the mistress was not how she looked or even the spark between them.  (So often the other woman is not even as attractive as the wife.) It was that she looked at him with adoring eyes, listened intently, laughed at his jokes (which the wife has heard a million times), and that he felt connected to her for some reason.  In short, the other woman is very “into him” and this feels good.  Because the wife has responsibilities and distractions at home, it can feel that his wife isn’t as “into him” in the same way.

So many affairs happen at work because the close quarters and the “team work” atmosphere that is encouraged contributes to boundaries being blurred.  Very few men intend to cheat at work.  They aren’t looking for this and aren’t caught off guard when it happens.  They usually go into the relationship for innocent and valid reasons, but over time they find that the person at work is meeting emotional needs, is showing attention, and is making them feel valued and understood.  He is sharing common tasks with her and this evolves into a more emotional realm.

If you read the emails that I get from men, you’d see that almost all of them spend more time describing the emotional connection rather than the physical one.  I have absolutely no doubt that the majority of men cheat more for emotional reasons than physical ones.  Yes, the sex is a bonus and they aren’t going to turn it down.  It’s exciting and new.  This can’t be denied.  But, the sex is often perceived as better not because of what she does or doesn’t do, but because he perceives that she’s really into him and he’s not feeling this at home.

What To Focus On (Besides Sex) If You Want To Save Your Marriage After An Affair:  I’ve already alluded to the fact that wives (and husbands too) who have been cheated on can become obsessed about the sex in the affair.  This is completely understandable, but I hope that I’ve shown you that there is so much more to an affair.  And, there’s so much more that you will need to address when you move forward to save your marriage.

So many spouses who have been cheated on feel that they need to swing from the chandeliers or do things that make them uncomfortable to get the spark back.  This just isn’t true.  What your spouse wants more than anything is to feel that you understand, appreciate and desire them.  A wife who initiates sex and then enjoys it is going to be so much more attractive than one who is putting on a show and doing something that isn’t typical.

Before you even worry about intimacy, you first have to reestablish the emotional connection.  You need to feel heard, understood, and appreciated every bit as much as your spouse does.  You need to figure out what vulnerabilities lead up to the affair and then fix them so that you are secure that you won’t have to deal with this again.  And, you need the time, distance and accountability to begin to rebuild the trust.  Then, it’s important to start focusing on created a new, better reality that you can both be excited about.

But once these things are behind you, know that reestablishing the emotional connection will go a long way toward reestablishing the physical one. You don’t have to participate in things that make you feel uncomfortable or you don’t want to do.  Your spouse is going to know that you are faking.  It’s better to get to a place where you can freely and comfortably engage in something that you are enthusiastic about and genuinely find enjoyable.  This will be more fulfilling and exciting to your partner than anything else.

I know that working through this is difficult, but it can truly be worth it. Although I never would’ve believed this two years ago, I did eventually truly get over the affair. My marriage is stronger than ever. It took a lot of work, and I had to play the game to win, but it was worth it. Our bond and intimacy is much stronger and because of all the work I did on myself, my self esteem is at an all time high. I no longer worry my husband will cheat again.

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Here’s a wonderful guide for passionate Sex by none other than Bharti Bedi from Mumbai Escorts, one of our most attractive Escorts in Mumbai:-

Most People Want Sex But Have Rotten Sex Lives
Most people love sex. And why not? Sex is the greatest thing we can do for fun that’s free. Best of all, when you have sex with someone you love, it not only feels good physically, but it makes a contribution to true happiness and fulfillment. Almost everyone dreams of having love combined with sex as a big part of their life.

Yet all too many people have rotten sex lives. The dream for many of us is to fall in love, get married, and have passionate sex for a lifetime. For all too many people, though, sex falls off precipitously when the honeymoon is over. Once kids come into the picture many couples’ sex life all but disappears. But even for couples who don’t have kids, including gay couples, all too often, passionate sex has a short shelf life.
Sex falls off precipitously for many people after the age of 50. And even during the earlier years, research indicates that over 50% of married couples are not satisfied with their sex lives. A high percentage of women fake orgasm and their partners don’t even know. By the age of 60, only 25% of women receive oral sex from men, which is the technique most likely to result in female orgasm.

Is there any hope for the sex lives of partnered couples? The good news is that at rates higher than ever, (at least one in three) people over the age of 60 are having vibrant, satisfying sex lives.

Would you like to improve that percentage? Are you a baby boomer who is heading into the final third and would like to make these days filled with sexual sunshine? Are you younger and want to do everything you can to make sure that the flame burns eternal?

Yes it is true. You can have passionate sex for a lifetime. It’s easy, it’s fun, and it’s free!

So what’s the secret? The secret is love. Just about everyone wants love, but who thinks about giving it? If you can keep your intention, your focus, and your actions on giving love, you can have great sex with one person for a lifetime. The big question is, what does it mean to give love?

Security
Everybody wants someone who is dependable, who shows up, who can be trusted, and does what they say. A dangerous relationship can be very hot for a while, but eventually a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you feel safe gets ugly. And it gets boring for all your friends who have to listen to you complain about a bad relationship you don’t get out of. When our bodies believe that they are in danger, the last thing they want to do is open, surrender, and let go.

Connection
The most important part of giving love is cultivating authentic connection. Authentic connection comes from caring contact and communication. Be open, honest, and considerate in communication. Listen, understand, and empathize. This doesn’t mean that sexy relationships are without conflict. A relationship without conflict has no heat! It is about real engagement with basic respect for your partner. If you have a conflict, let the guiding motivation be to respond, repair, and resolve rather than react and attack.

Self-Care
Take care of your temple, otherwise known as your body. That’s the part of you that has sex after all. Eat well, get off substances, exercise. If you want to want to have sex, if you want all the parts to work, and if you want to turn on your partner – especially as you are visited by the ravages of time – you better take care of yourself.

One part of that temple is your brain. That needs to be worked on also if you want to have good sex. Live a full, interesting life. If you’re boring, your sex will be, too.

Appreciate
If you want to be turned on, you’ve got to turn yourself on. If you want to turn on your partner, you’ve got to be turned on by them. Find your partner’s beauty. Savor them. Let yourself feel how incredible it is that you get to look at, smell, touch, and taste a naked human body. Celebrate what you love about your partner. Instead of focusing on your negative judgments, think about what is great about your spouse. Tell your lover what you adore about them.

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Mumbai Escorts services are of great help to society, although it can sometimes be considered a taboo subject. A huge number of people hire services such as Indian escorts and NRI escort services for personal indulgence, but some enjoy the professional benefits too. There are advantages that a Mumbai Escort Girl can offer in the world of both work and play.

For instance, suppose you’re invited by a major client of yours to dine with him. This is a great opportunity for you to impress him, and it could be a good time to strike a deal. The lucrative contracts you’ve had your eye on and desperately want to finalise could be closed if you hired an escort who could entice the client. A business agreement of this kind could bring in better prospects for your company and might aford you a great company car, a bigger bonus and all the possibilities of an early promotion!

This realisation of prospective benefits will make you want to hire the services of an escort agency. There are several reasons why you may not have a girlfriend. Perhaps because you are a divorcee, or maybe your stringent work schedule over recent months has made you too busy to enjoy the comfort of self-indulgence and a healthy social life. Don’t you want to spend time with a beautiful girl with no strings attached?

You can turn up for a unique dinner date with a gorgeous woman at your side, but that’s only possible if you have a girlfriend. Isn’t it? Actually, for your business deal to stand a good chance of success, having the right girl by your side is a must. It would also help you to lure your client to take a more generous attitude. Your date will be a proof of your competency. She will show that you have some strong characteristics in you that make you a go-getter in life; you’re no underdog who cannot make something out of your life, but are a person that has capability to live up to the ideal.

A good escort agency like us with Mumbai Escorts understands that a travelling businessman rarely gets the time to come across someone special. Also, they don’t have the freedom that is very important for a stable relationship to be maintained. It’s quite natural a reaction for someone to be nervous at the time of calling an escort agency initially. The appearance of your date would be a great cause of concern to you. Her education, her social skills and finesse would be on your mind.

If you select the right escort agency and describe to us what exactly you want from tus, then we can provide you with the right girl who meets all your requirements. You will have her complete attention and your client will be certain that you are the right guy to do business with.

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Do you ever find yourself having to stop over for the night at Mumbai Airport? Perhaps you have a very early morning or late night flight, or a stay before a connecting flight. These nights can be lonely and boring, with nothing but the television in your hotel room to entertain you. But it doesn’t have to be that way; there are tempting and attainable solutions.
Owing to the area’s huge airport, Mumbai sees countless people from all over the world coming and going on a regular basis. It’s inevitable that a fair percentage of these people will want to hire an escort in Mumbai upon their arrival, which is where we step in.

There was such a demand for Mumbai Escorts that it seemed a bit foolish for people to have to arrange for escorts to come from wherever they were available to Mumbai to meet people at the airport or in the surrounding areas. So we decided to set up a Mumbai Escorts Airport service that allowed people to arrive at the airport with the knowledge that an escort was waiting for them the second they stepped off the plane.

We received a surprisingly high degree of enthusiasm from girls in the area, and we ended up hiring many of the area’s most attractive and charming girls to work for us. Our gallery boasts a great selection of gorgeous escorts for Mumbai, and each of these girls will happily provide you with only the finest of company the minute you meet them. We are proud of the airport escorts we offer, and you can expect the same degree of professionalism from us as you can from them.

While many clients looking for a Mumbai Escorts girl will want to be met at the airport, there are also other arrangements we cater for. Our lines are open 24/7 meaning you can hire one of our girls at any time you like, and we can chauffeur the Mumbai Escorts of your choice to anywhere in the area. Perhaps you are not staying in one of the hotels, but actually live locally. This is no problem for us; we cover all of the areas surrounding Mumbai, and will bring the lady of your choice to meet you there. It’s all part of our excellent airport escort service.
Whenever you get the craving for a beautiful woman, get on the phone and book an escort in Mumbai. It’ll be the best overnight stay you’ve ever had.

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Just when we all thought that summer was finally here, it seems the typical Mumbai weather has struck again. This midsummer weekend has been a total washout, with more than the average rainfall pelting down in the last two days. The freak conditions experienced over the weekend, are much more common in November, and have ruined many July festivals and sporting events.
Unfortunately it seems that the miserable weather is set to continue, with brighter conditions not predicted until at least next week. Some weather experts are even claiming that the unsettled conditions will last until early next month. With a considerable temperature drop, be sure to remember a jacket as well as an umbrella when venturing out. There is nothing worse than being caught in a downpour, or having to shiver in a chilly wind.
Or maybe you could avoid the depressing weather altogether – by staying snug inside? You could always grab a taxi to a comfy hotel room and spend some long needed relaxation time. Here at Mumbai Escorts, we like to give our clients the best service possible.
Imagine snuggling up in a cosy hotel with one of our stunning escort girls. Spending a few rainy days enjoying the company of some of the most beautiful escorts Mumbai has to offer. Maybe one particular escort has caught your eye? All our gorgeous girls know Mumbai well, and would be happy to recommend somewhere warm for you two to meet.
Here at Mumbai Escorts, we see the gloomy weather as an opportunity to have some fun inside! Check out our great selection of female escorts, who all love to play indoors when the weather outside is bad. We have the best girls available in Mumbai, with categories ranging from brunette escorts to mature escorts – we have escorts to suit all styles! And don’t forget that if you can’t find the category you are looking for, then just give us a buzz, as our friendly receptionist girls are sure to have someone to suit.
We have had rave reviews from all of our regulars, and it continues to be our mission to satisfy the needs of all our respected clients. So don’t sit in shivering on your own, get hot with one of our stunners. You will never moan about the Mumbai weather again!

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This summer has seen toned babes in slinky bikinis, hitting beaches all over Mumbai. A lot of women seem to work hard at staying fit, Independent Escorts in Mumbai are a prime example of girls who take great pride in their appearance.

Us men however, are often less enthusiastic about the thought of counting calories or hitting the gym every evening. However, there are some small things that we can do to help us create the beach body that will win over all the stunners. So, if you want to have a body you can be proud of, follow the small steps below, and get in the right lane towards creating the physique you have always dreamed of!
Swimming:
The official sport of summer, swimming is a great exercise because quite simply, it doesn’t feel like exercise! Swimming provides huge benefits for your body, as it builds muscle whilst also burning fat. It is also one of the only exercises which works every single muscle in your body – ensuring you are getting an all round workout. So why not take a dip in the sea, whilst at your favourite beach resort? You can have a close up of hot girls whilst toning your body! Or, if the typical Indian weather isn’t up to much, swimming indoors just a couple of hours once a week, will make a huge difference to your appearance.

Sit-ups/Crunches:
We know it’s boring, but unfortunately plain old sit ups really do the trick when aiming for that six pack. Luckily, beach ready abs does not mean hours upon hours of repetitive crunches – just a few here and there, will really make a difference. Try holding the crunch for 30 seconds for maximum effect. And remember, toning exercises work best when combined with a healthy diet – or at the very least, a diet which contains a lot of water.

Exfoliation/Massage:
Believe it or not, the average human generates a new layer of skin every two to four weeks. This means that dead skin cells need to be removed, otherwise skin can become damaged. This is especially important when starting a new exercise routine, as without exfoliation, extra perspiration combined with dead skin cells can lead to spotty skin (nice!). Massage is also good when exercising, as it can relax aching muscles and help encourage healthy blood flow. If all this sounds like a bit too much effort, then why not opt for a cheap massage? Mumbai city escorts at Mumbai Escorts Agency are all trained in the art of erotic massage, so you can ease your aching limbs and also let off some steam!

And now the most important tip of all! Don’t forget that some kinky sex with a special lady will really burn off some calories. Thrusting is great for the leg and stomach muscles…. who knew that becoming a muscly stud with a six pack, could be so much fun!

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Dates are meant to be these fantastic evenings that you are just never going to forget. Though you might have gone ahead and got the occasion to go out with many wonderful women who might have been able to provide you with great evenings, there is going to be a desire inside you to have the perfect date as you might have imagined in your wildest dreams with a stunning woman. The best way, in which you can satisfy this need is by going for one of the attractive Mumbai Escorts with whom you will be able to have the kind of date, you always desired and deserved!

Going on a date isn’t easy in the modern life where all your time is devoted to professional commitments and so whenever you get some free time you desire to have a perfect time. It isn’t that easy to get a fabulous date as you have to invest a lot of time into someone and thus a date with a random woman might just end up to be really disappointing. There is a much easier and a convenient option now available with the aid of beautiful Mumbai Escorts who will be able to give you the best date of your life.

These Mumbai Escorts surely will know how to get your mood elevated and get you interested as they will be able engage your mind and your thoughts onto themselves with their incredible charm and their surprising playfulness that will create the kind of sparks you need. You surely won’t be disappointed by their looks in anyway as their intense beauty will be able to captivate your gaze and keep your eyes locked on them the entire duration of your date. These gorgeous women surely will be able to entertain you with their intelligence and their wit too that will completely have your mind engaged in interesting conversations.

These Mumbai Escorts girls are extremely convenient as they can be delivered at the comfort of your residence by a transportation service provided by a good escort agency. This will ensure that all your communications with these agencies are absolutely discreet and you will also be able to have discreet monetary transactions with them. These services also won’t cost you a lot as they are extremely affordable and with a little money you will be able to meet these sensational girls that will make you feel as if you are living in heaven.

These wonderful Mumbai Escorts are a fabulous way to spend that amazing evening with a beautiful woman just the way you always wanted. Once you will be able to have a romantic and a remarkable time with these special ladies, you will forget all those weird and awkward dates you have had before with women who made you feel like you just wasted your time. These striking escorts will be able to get you the kind of date every man wants and get your heart racing with the kind of passion that you just won’t feel with other women.