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Sex without commitment:
Most people might say, no comment to that particular topic. Lets Hear it as per Bharti from Mumbai Escorts Team!

Some people respect it, and some don’t. Some people hate it to a point where they say that they don’t condone it. The reasons why is because some get attached to a point where they can’t really handle the sex without commitment issue and tend to get really jealous. Now a days, more and more women are having sex like men. Some can handle it and some can’t.

It’s like this: Men feel that they can do certain things to women, but as soon as we women start acting like them, all of a sudden, they don’t like it and can’t perform sexually like they normally do, all because they feel intimidated by the woman and just can’t understand it, and feel that women shouldn’t do that, or have sex like them.

Now, some women say they have decided to have sex like men because men have been doing it to us forever now like having sex and leaving us, and frankly, we are just sick of it so now we have to act like them all for the simple fact that men love to break our hearts just by using the L word. Why say you love us, if it isn’t so. Sex is a powerful and dangerous act that can lead to a crime of passion so that’s why so many people are having sex without commitment, meaning no strings attached whatsoever. Some choose to share intimate secrets with each other and some become possessive.
This is the age of uninnosense and self protection and some say that there are no great unmarried men. Now some men just want to be that ungettable bachelor. However, you should always play by the rules when having sex without commitment and give each other space. There is no need to just settle for anything that comes your way, and you should have no feelings whatsoever, and some people tend to forget about the person they’ve slept with. It is said that some men don’t want to be in a relationship with you, but as soon as you start acting like them, they start to really get worried and get scared. But is there really any real romance that comes with sex without commitment? With this sort of act, there should be no messy emotional attachment. Now, some women feel powerful after acting just like men because they feel that they have succeeded with the plan that comes with having sex without commitment. I once dated a guy for six years and basically it was supposed to be sex without commitment but apparently it turned out to be a real on going romance and it turns out that I ended up falling madly in love with him and the feeling was mutual on his end, and he showered me with gifts and luxuries and took good care of me. But in the end, we broke up and got back together. Till this day, I still don’t know what happened and why we broke up to begin with. The point I’m getting to is that women tend to engage in sex without commitment but don’t feel as powerful or in control of the situation that they’re in because they fall in love too quickly which cause too much confusion and problems that comes with the agreement of sex without commitment. Most men enjoy having sex without commitment because it’s a little bit more convenient for them. Although, women who agree to having sex without commitment normally go numb and have no feeling whatsoever after they sleep with the guy that they’re involved with and really don’t care what they do and really don’t feel the need to feel attached to the man at all. These days, not everyone wants to commit to a relationship. Although, it takes two, and there should be an agreement between the two of you. Some people are in it for certain sexual favors, in other words in slang terms (a jump off) and that’s it. Men say, when having sex without commitment you should be available when called and with that there’s less stress on both parties. However, dating outside as far as seeing other people is better because the sex is greater and you’re more open and honest with each other where there’s no pressure whatsoever which is so much better. However, there are so many adavntages with that, meaning there’s no jealousy and you’re not too demanding. Sex without commitment is great because everyone has needs and it tends to get lonely at times. In that case, you’ll need someone to talk to and look at.

With sex without commitment: It’s all about the pros and the cons. But most improtantly the pros,

Sex without commitment: Men and Women, is this what we’re looking for to really satisfy us to keep a spark or is this something that everyone really wants and need in their lives.

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I(Bharti from Mumbai Escorts) get a lot of emails from wives who are concerned about what sex is going to be like after their husband cheated or had an affair.  Many are trying very hard to save their marriages.  They are doing everything they can to move on in a positive way.

But sex can be a whole different story in this equation because it’s just so raw.  There’s really no where to hide.  If it’s awkward or awful this can negatively affect your attempts to save your marriage and get things back to normal.  And, some women fear that they (or their husband) are going to think about the other woman during sex.

They other worry that either they or their husband won’t get aroused or turned on and that the whole encounter might be a disaster.   And if it’s a disaster, what does this say about his attraction for and desire for you and about the marriage?

This is a shame because sometimes sexual issues after cheating or an affair don’t have everything to do with sexual desire or the lack of it.  A lot of emotions, doubt, fear, and resentment can be tied to sex after cheating.

In the following article, I’ll offer some tips to help make sure the first time you have sex with your husband after cheating is a good experience rather than a bad one.

Although It’s Very Tempting:  Don’t Rush Sex After His Cheating Or Affair:  I admit that I was very tempting to rush into sex after my husband’s affair –  not because I particularly wanted to have it with him, but because I wanted confirmation that he would still find me attractive or be turned on by me.

And I think part of me wanted for him to want me so I could turn around and turn him down.  I know this was silly thinking on my part and a potential power play but that’s the way I felt.  However, after hearing from people I respect, I decided I would be better off waiting and I’m so glad I did because the experience was actually quite good rather than awkward, in genuine, or forced.

If you have any doubt or reservation, I think it is better to wait.  Honestly, if you can wait until the moment is absolutely right and you both want to be together more than anything else and can’t wait another moment, this is how you know that you have waited long enough.

I know it’s very tempting to want the reassurance of sex.  You want to connect again.  You want affirmation.  But isn’t it better to know that you can freely participate without doubt or pain?   I know that husbands have a tendency to pressure you for sex because they want to know that you are forgiven them.

But part of your healing process is putting yourself and your needs first.  You can gently and lovingly tell him that, when you do have sex, you want it to be special and you aren’t sure you’re at that point yet, but that he will be the first to know.  You can phrase it in a playful way that isn’t a rejection.

Regaining Your Sexual Confidence After Your Husband Cheated Or Had An Affair:  To me, the one thing that is going to make sex after an affair good is your own confidence.  If you go into this worried that he doesn’t find you desirable or that the experience isn’t going to be good, this is going to affect the outcome and both of your levels of enjoyment.  I know you might hope that your doubts or reluctance won’t be obvious, but it generally is.

So, I actually think it’s a very good idea to work on rebuilding your self esteem before you have sex with your husband again.  Tweak your appearance if it bothers you, get something amazing to wear so that you can feel your best.

I’ll be honest.  I read up on things to hone my sexual skills also, which is bit embarassing but I figured I needed all the help I could get. I learned how to tweak your sexual skills and, shall we say and incorporate things that men REALLY like in bed so that at least you can have the confidence that the experience is going to be good for him.

And quite frankly, isn’t that what we all want? To know that sex with us is so good that he doesn’t want or need to go and get it anywhere else?  With that said though, I don’t ever want for you to feel as though you have to put on a performance or do everything right to earn his love or desire.

Because this is as much about an emotional connection as it about a physical one. If your mind isn’t into it, your body can’t be either.  That’s why I recommend making sure you have done everything that you need to heal before you resume your sex life.

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Bharti Bedi from Mumbai Escorts says, I find, (from personal experience and from the emails that I get from readers), that of all of the things that a spouse could focus on when they find out or suspect that their partner is cheating, sex is almost always the thing that is focused on the most.  Most people want to know what the sex was like, how it differed from intimacy with them, and if their spouse enjoyed it more.

Wanting to know these things is understandable, but it’s very important to realize that the answers to these questions really don’t help you heal and will only paint a negative picture that’s going to be very hard to get out of your head.  Additionally, it’s a fact that very often, affairs have less to do with sex than you may think.  It’s often much more effective to focus on other aspects of the affair, as other things contributed more to it and fixing these things will help you (and your marriage) much more. I’ll explain what I mean by this in the following article.

Cheating Is Often About Much More Than Sex: These a perception that affairs are filled with sleazy, hot sex that the cheater couldn’t get at home.  While the sex in an affair can be different for many reasons, the sex is often not the cornerstone of why the cheating happened.  In fact, many spouses who cheat often have very fulling or at least regular intimacy at home.

Often, cheating is really about attention and feeling competent and unique. So many men tell me that what was so attractive about the mistress was not how she looked or even the spark between them.  (So often the other woman is not even as attractive as the wife.) It was that she looked at him with adoring eyes, listened intently, laughed at his jokes (which the wife has heard a million times), and that he felt connected to her for some reason.  In short, the other woman is very “into him” and this feels good.  Because the wife has responsibilities and distractions at home, it can feel that his wife isn’t as “into him” in the same way.

So many affairs happen at work because the close quarters and the “team work” atmosphere that is encouraged contributes to boundaries being blurred.  Very few men intend to cheat at work.  They aren’t looking for this and aren’t caught off guard when it happens.  They usually go into the relationship for innocent and valid reasons, but over time they find that the person at work is meeting emotional needs, is showing attention, and is making them feel valued and understood.  He is sharing common tasks with her and this evolves into a more emotional realm.

If you read the emails that I get from men, you’d see that almost all of them spend more time describing the emotional connection rather than the physical one.  I have absolutely no doubt that the majority of men cheat more for emotional reasons than physical ones.  Yes, the sex is a bonus and they aren’t going to turn it down.  It’s exciting and new.  This can’t be denied.  But, the sex is often perceived as better not because of what she does or doesn’t do, but because he perceives that she’s really into him and he’s not feeling this at home.

What To Focus On (Besides Sex) If You Want To Save Your Marriage After An Affair:  I’ve already alluded to the fact that wives (and husbands too) who have been cheated on can become obsessed about the sex in the affair.  This is completely understandable, but I hope that I’ve shown you that there is so much more to an affair.  And, there’s so much more that you will need to address when you move forward to save your marriage.

So many spouses who have been cheated on feel that they need to swing from the chandeliers or do things that make them uncomfortable to get the spark back.  This just isn’t true.  What your spouse wants more than anything is to feel that you understand, appreciate and desire them.  A wife who initiates sex and then enjoys it is going to be so much more attractive than one who is putting on a show and doing something that isn’t typical.

Before you even worry about intimacy, you first have to reestablish the emotional connection.  You need to feel heard, understood, and appreciated every bit as much as your spouse does.  You need to figure out what vulnerabilities lead up to the affair and then fix them so that you are secure that you won’t have to deal with this again.  And, you need the time, distance and accountability to begin to rebuild the trust.  Then, it’s important to start focusing on created a new, better reality that you can both be excited about.

But once these things are behind you, know that reestablishing the emotional connection will go a long way toward reestablishing the physical one. You don’t have to participate in things that make you feel uncomfortable or you don’t want to do.  Your spouse is going to know that you are faking.  It’s better to get to a place where you can freely and comfortably engage in something that you are enthusiastic about and genuinely find enjoyable.  This will be more fulfilling and exciting to your partner than anything else.

I know that working through this is difficult, but it can truly be worth it. Although I never would’ve believed this two years ago, I did eventually truly get over the affair. My marriage is stronger than ever. It took a lot of work, and I had to play the game to win, but it was worth it. Our bond and intimacy is much stronger and because of all the work I did on myself, my self esteem is at an all time high. I no longer worry my husband will cheat again.

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Here’s a wonderful guide for passionate Sex by none other than Bharti Bedi from Mumbai Escorts, one of our most attractive Escorts in Mumbai:-

Most People Want Sex But Have Rotten Sex Lives
Most people love sex. And why not? Sex is the greatest thing we can do for fun that’s free. Best of all, when you have sex with someone you love, it not only feels good physically, but it makes a contribution to true happiness and fulfillment. Almost everyone dreams of having love combined with sex as a big part of their life.

Yet all too many people have rotten sex lives. The dream for many of us is to fall in love, get married, and have passionate sex for a lifetime. For all too many people, though, sex falls off precipitously when the honeymoon is over. Once kids come into the picture many couples’ sex life all but disappears. But even for couples who don’t have kids, including gay couples, all too often, passionate sex has a short shelf life.
Sex falls off precipitously for many people after the age of 50. And even during the earlier years, research indicates that over 50% of married couples are not satisfied with their sex lives. A high percentage of women fake orgasm and their partners don’t even know. By the age of 60, only 25% of women receive oral sex from men, which is the technique most likely to result in female orgasm.

Is there any hope for the sex lives of partnered couples? The good news is that at rates higher than ever, (at least one in three) people over the age of 60 are having vibrant, satisfying sex lives.

Would you like to improve that percentage? Are you a baby boomer who is heading into the final third and would like to make these days filled with sexual sunshine? Are you younger and want to do everything you can to make sure that the flame burns eternal?

Yes it is true. You can have passionate sex for a lifetime. It’s easy, it’s fun, and it’s free!

So what’s the secret? The secret is love. Just about everyone wants love, but who thinks about giving it? If you can keep your intention, your focus, and your actions on giving love, you can have great sex with one person for a lifetime. The big question is, what does it mean to give love?

Security
Everybody wants someone who is dependable, who shows up, who can be trusted, and does what they say. A dangerous relationship can be very hot for a while, but eventually a relationship with someone who doesn’t make you feel safe gets ugly. And it gets boring for all your friends who have to listen to you complain about a bad relationship you don’t get out of. When our bodies believe that they are in danger, the last thing they want to do is open, surrender, and let go.

Connection
The most important part of giving love is cultivating authentic connection. Authentic connection comes from caring contact and communication. Be open, honest, and considerate in communication. Listen, understand, and empathize. This doesn’t mean that sexy relationships are without conflict. A relationship without conflict has no heat! It is about real engagement with basic respect for your partner. If you have a conflict, let the guiding motivation be to respond, repair, and resolve rather than react and attack.

Self-Care
Take care of your temple, otherwise known as your body. That’s the part of you that has sex after all. Eat well, get off substances, exercise. If you want to want to have sex, if you want all the parts to work, and if you want to turn on your partner – especially as you are visited by the ravages of time – you better take care of yourself.

One part of that temple is your brain. That needs to be worked on also if you want to have good sex. Live a full, interesting life. If you’re boring, your sex will be, too.

Appreciate
If you want to be turned on, you’ve got to turn yourself on. If you want to turn on your partner, you’ve got to be turned on by them. Find your partner’s beauty. Savor them. Let yourself feel how incredible it is that you get to look at, smell, touch, and taste a naked human body. Celebrate what you love about your partner. Instead of focusing on your negative judgments, think about what is great about your spouse. Tell your lover what you adore about them.